How to facing women that always moody? people said a woman is live things that confusing in the world. Yes, it was usually men said like that. maybe including you, your partner, you dad or your grandpa got it.
Me, as a woman, sometimes also confusing with my self. What I want exactly? hahaha…
When we are (women) angry, actually we are really upset but we won’t men leave us alone. When we said, up to you, actually we hope you to follow what we want. when we ask, which one is the best? we don’t want men answering “up to you” or “all is looking good”, but we want you to choose the best one. Hey man, your answers makes us bad mood already.
What happens with women’s mood? why a woman always moody? yes, because they are feeling deeper than men, get moody often especially in her period, express the emotions more frequently. even though moodiness is a weakness, but it is not like a virus that we need to remove, this is the truth of women. we just can control it, but can not remove it out permanently.
when you know a woman for years, it is no guarantee that you know him so well. especially when their period is coming, you can feel that you just meet her at this moment, she looking strange, looks savage or sadden, am I right? oke, not all woman will do it, but a lot of them did it. maybe including me. even I’m married for 10 years, my husband still looking confuse when my mood swings so fast.
Oke this is my tips for heading this situation:
1. No offence
Oke, it’s not easy, but if you love her, try to be no offence when her mood swing is coming. oke, you ordinary person, but trust me, it is not happening for long, just wait until her mood back because for now, you can’t push her emotion. if you force her emotion down, she can explode. this is women, guys.
2. patient
be patient is one way for facing her bad mood, while she looks upset you can recognize how to handle her condition if it happens again in the next time. this is the key to finding the way how to conquer her heart
3. make her smile
you can be a funny person to make him smiling or laughing. if you know what situation that can make her laughing, just did it. but if don’t know how oke just looking for it. Oh God, this is not a bit of good advice I guess, hahaha, just skip
4. let it be
let her cry, let her go, let her upset, let her alone for a while. Just quite or go away. let women put out all his emotion. then, after all, you can back to hug her. but this way doesn’t always work because a lot of woman doesn’t want to left alone. so, when you let her alone for crying, could be after that she found someone else to hug him behind you and you late. this is not a good step, but you just can try it if you feel this is urgent to try.
5. Warm hug
warm hug will make a woman feeling loved
every woman loves to be hugged I guess. in a men’s chest for sure. So, the last one advise that I can give is in every moment, every mood, just hug your women, lovingly. say that you love her as much as you can do it, not only hug on a special occasion. every hug that you give can make her heart always felt peace and love. this condition will make her mood is always good. even she felt the bad mood in her period, it will not so bad as you ever thought
oke, hope this is thought can give you an inspiration about how to facing your woman. see ya…
Mips
Hello thank you for sharing your thoughts about “Why Women are Always Moody”. I just want to share my two cents opinion regarding this. Before you stereotyping correlation between woman and mood, I think it would be better if you get thorough reading about woman itself. A lot of articles and research has been discussing about this. Emotion or what you called moodyness is not exist only on woman. In fact, man feel that too. However, woman has this privilage to express it freely unlike man. Other than that, our hormone and chemical inside our body also playing a big part with this. Other than that, emotion is not a weakness or something thay need to be supressed. It is humane things that can occurs on every human. Cheers! Keep up the good work.
Jiah Al Jafara
Laki-laki harus baca ini. Aku pun moody banget apalagi saat premenstruasi. Suasana hati gak nentu. Wanita hanya ingin dimengerti
Kang Alee
Saya suka banget pernyataan di awal paragraf akhir … very woman loves to be hugged I guess. in a men’s chest for sure, hehehe. Englishnya mantab
Anisa Deasty Malela
Perempuan moody karena 90% tindakan yang dilakukannya menggunakan perasaan 🙂
Kalau perempuan ga moody, bisa dibilang perasaannya sudah ga peka dan merasa masa bodoh dengan lingkungannya
Dian Safitri
sebenernya kalau aku liat, moody ini bukan hanya dialami oleh kita para wanita lho.. cowo juga pada moody’an. manusiawi kali ya. tapi memang mereka pintar menyembunyikannya.
Oky Maulana
Bukan cuma perempuan sih, laki laki juga moody kok hahahha kadang aku kalo lagi moody ya menyendiri aja wk
tukang jalan jajan
Wanita hanya ingin dimengerti dan dipahami. Terkadang dari sudut pandang laki laki mungkin terlalu susah jika pesannya tersirat. harus diomongin langsung sih ya hehehehe
Susindra
Bahahahah. I remember my hubby while read this.
Sometimes he is confuse too. I am not having periode but tired. And sometimes so bore of same topic or retoric subject so I answer it bit louder than usual.
lendyagasshi
Aku moody.
Tapi aku hapal banget kenapa aku moody. Gak berapa lama juga seger kembali asal disapa dan diajak ngomong, bukan di ceng-cengin “Mama lagi marah kenapaa??”
Cuma butuh diajak ngobrooooll aja…terus tumpah-tumpah deeh…tuh, curhatannya.